za vse ki klepetate po spletnih klepetalnicah
It is so obvious, and yet we men get suckered into all the time, long after we should have learned.
I think women play on two basic masculine tendencies:
1. The need to make sense of things. We do this naturally, constantly, and when a woman pretends to be doing the same thing, we fall for it.
2. Our natural tendency to give people the benefit of the doubt. Make a statement. Someone responds. Our first impulse is to assume that the second person is acting in good faith.
Women only pretend to engage us intellectually, when actually they are just trying to derail whatever it is we are trying to do. It is their natural first impulse: You want to talk sense? I will mess it up. You want to be playful? I will act like you aren’t being serious enough.
This works a lot better in person because women have the capacity to be so adamant about things they neither know anything about nor care about, and as men, we think: I wouldn’t be so sure of myself unless I knew what I was talking about, so maybe she is seeing something I don’t.
Without the blustering and the eye contact and the vocal nuances, the examples you list are starkly ridiculous in the black and white of the printed word.
They really have no intention of engaging you in an honest way, they just want to mess up whatever you are trying to say. If fake logic doesn’t work, they will try something else.
It is much better not to give them the benefit of the doubt, and assume they are trying to get away with something than waste your time engaging them like rational adults. Dismiss them with ambiguous phrases like: “Don’t start.” or just roll your eyes at them. Even if you don’t know exactly what they are up to, they will know and will give you credit for knowing.
Will it shut them up? Not necessarily.
Jp, po duracelove baterije grem vsakič na drugo pumpo. Mi je, tko no, mal nerodn…za daljinca ne bi noben verjel, da tolk hitr crknejo.[/quote]
hudiš ane? Še dobro da je porn for free na netu 😛
daj si rechargable baterije kupi no 😛
Jp, po duracelove baterije grem vsakič na drugo pumpo. Mi je, tko no, mal nerodn…za daljinca ne bi noben verjel, da tolk hitr crknejo.[/quote]
hudiš ane? Še dobro da je porn for free na netu 😛
daj si rechargable baterije kupi no :P[/quote]
ooo, thanks, bom naročila za osmi marec namest rož rajš te baterije….bo daljši rok trajanja:-))))
Jp, po duracelove baterije grem vsakič na drugo pumpo. Mi je, tko no, mal nerodn…za daljinca ne bi noben verjel, da tolk hitr crknejo.[/quote]
Otroci ne bodo ponosni nate, ko čez par let preberejo tole.[/quote]
Ma dej, misliš? Mogoče so pa mal drugač vzgajani kot ti in razumejo virtualo mnogo bolje od tebe.
Čez Seinfelda ga pa ni![/quote]
Gospa K. – ste samo zaradi Kramerja gledali serijo? :)[/quote]
Ajme :))) ta model pa me je nasmejal kot še nobeden v žviljenju:
Gospa K. – ste samo zaradi Kramerja gledali serijo? :)[/quote]
Ajme :))) ta model pa me je nasmejal kot še nobeden v žviljenju:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rhpkt5QhUNY%5B/quote%5D
Ja, je pojava…ste vi tudi? 🙂
Ajme :))) ta model pa me je nasmejal kot še nobeden v žviljenju:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rhpkt5QhUNY%5B/quote%5D
Ja, je pojava…ste vi tudi? :)[/quote]
Odvisno od dneva 😉
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